Jean

How Much Is Enough?

I was on the phone recently with another career counselor, and since he knows I’m in transition, he asked me how my stress levels are. We talked about that a bit and then he said that most people just exchange the stress of a job for the stress of job search and never give themselves that quiet time, do nothing time to really get in touch with their deepest self. He told me to “experience stillness” and that from that place something new will grow. Not easy to do but I think he’s right. He also said that in his practice most job seekers get addicted to crisis mode–you know, I’ve got to do this right now because… A lot to think about.

This reminded me of a former client of mine who couldn’t stop searching even after hours at his computer. We had talked about balance, we had discussed self-care and how important that was, but nothing helped. He was still driving himself and his family crazy so one day I told him that I had a present for him. His face lit up until he saw my gift:  a piece of paper with a large, black X on it. I said to him, “Starting at 5PM every day, I want you to tape this over your monitor. You are done your work for the day and must wait until the next day to go back online.” He agreed to try it, and although I think he had a few slips where he sneaked back to his desk after everyone was asleep, it helped him stop.

I can’t say if this is what helped him land a new job which he did, but I do think it helped him not run himself into the ground. Put in a good 20-30 hours of week of smart searching (that means don’t just answer internet ads but network, research companies, go to job search group meetings, etc.) and then enjoy your remaining time. Take a walk, read a good book, visit a neighbor, take a class–do things you enjoy. It might just help you land your next opportunity.

Job Search Resources

I’ll be speaking at three events in the several weeks and hope you can join me. My website has the details (www.JeanBaur.com) but please mark your calendars for March 13th at the Hamilton Public Library where I’ll be talking about “What’s Stopping You From Landing the Job You Want?” The following week, on March 21 from 1-3 I’ll be at Bucks County Community College in Newtown, PA speaking on “Eliminated! Now What?” and is for Encore participants (not open to the public). And lastly, please tune in on April 8th at 8AM to “Your Career is Calling” on 107.7 FM or if you’re out of the listening area on www.1077thebronc.com. Topic is still in the works but it will include advice on running an effective job search. All events are interactive and free so kick your job search up a notch and join me. 

Let Go

It has come to this

The rug pulled

The walls crumbling

Because someone decided

My work is done.

And for two weeks

I bowed my head

And let them beat me,

But now I say no–

I want my power back,

I want me–confident me–

Who has a job to do.

So here’s my message:

I will be a company of one

CEO of a start-up–

And I’d just like to say

Try to stop me!

HOW TO RE-ENGERIZE YOUR JOB SEARCH

 

What happens to many people as they look for work? They become stuck, inefficient and discouraged. To become more productive and get to your next job, you’ve got to think differently, perhaps seeing yourself as a one-person business.  So now you’re CEO of You, Inc.  Here are some initial questions to consider:

Have you set goals that are realistic and that excite you?

Where have you had traction so far?

What is clearly not working?

Where do you need help?

The reason you want goals that engage you is that they will be easier to accomplish. As a career coach, when I work with someone who is having difficulty getting things done, I often find that they’re not really interested in the work they’re pursuing. And by realistic I mean that you have the resources (time, money, patience, education, and so on) to reach your goals.

Next, pay attention to what’s working and what isn’t. Are you getting calls from the postings you’ve answered? Are recruiters calling you? Or are you finding that doors are opening as a result of your connections or networking? Do more of what’s working and less of what isn’t. (I know this sounds simplistic but you’d be amazed at how many job seekers are addicted to techniques that aren’t working.)

And lastly, where could someone else help you? If you’re having difficulty finding quality information, you might need to sit down with your local reference librarian. Or if you aren’t reaching out to people, you could get help growing your networking skills. Perhaps your resume isn’t as strong as it could be—look for resources to help you make it more effective (free community-based groups or a career coach.)

Now let’s look at the trademarks of a search that’s run as if it’s your own company. Distinguishing factors would be:

 A daily or weekly schedule of at least 25 hours a week

Good organization—a spreadsheet for contacts as well as a system for tracking your major activities

A clear communication strategy that  includes who you are, what you’re good at, why you’re seeking a new opportunity and what sets you apart from others

An emphasis on networking as this is the best way to:

— tap into the unpublished job market

–get advice that will save you time and effort

–motivate others to help you

  Relentless follow up. (Because it is in the second, third or fourth time you connect with someone that you get the best help.)

To re-energize your job search, make sure you’re invested in your goals, pay attention to what’s working and what isn’t, and run your search as if it were your own company. And a last word of advice:  be as flexible as possible and try not to say “no” to ideas that sound dubious. Getting to that next opportunity is rarely a straight line and help comes from surprising places.

 

Webinar for Career Counselors

On   September 27, 2011 (Tuesday) 11 AM , I’ll be giving a Webinar on “Dynamic Tips for Coaching Your Clients Through Job Loss.” For more information call 1-800-648-JIST.  Participants will be able to email questions during the session and every one gets a free copy of my book:  “Eliminated! Now What?” Hope you can join me.

What’s your interview advantage?

When interviewing for a new job, it’s a good idea to think about what you have to offer and what your competitive advantage might be. In some cases it could be the diversity of your background, in others that you’re a recent college grad and are starting out, and in still others, that you combine strong technical skills with the ability to work well with diverse teams. Think of specifc examples that prove your advantage and make those a highlight as you interview.

How to keep going if you’ve been searching for a while?

I am frequently asked this question and it always makes me pause because I can see and hear the desperation behind it. So many job seekers have been out there for months and are worn down and discouraged. What should you do if you’re one of them?

Take a hard look at what has worked so far in your search and what hasn’t. Do more of what is working. Ask for advice. Get out of the house. Give yourself rewards. See your friends. Volunteer. Make a list of companies where you’d like to work and share that list with your network.

In this economy, it’s critical to search smart. Don’t keep doing the same old stuff if it’s not working.

How to use snow as a networking tool

Okay, many of us have just experienced our fourth major snow storm of the season and are wondering if we’ll ever see bare ground again. I noticed in my neighborhood, that people helped each other and sure spent a lot of time shoveling out. So if you’re in transition, the snow is a great “ice breaker” as everyone wants to talk about it and you might be able to help someone shovel off their walkway or get across a slush-filled street. Make it work for you and as all career experts advise, get out of the house and talk with others. And while you’re shoveling,  let people know you’re in transition.