{"id":427,"date":"2017-01-23T10:34:50","date_gmt":"2017-01-23T15:34:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.jeanbaur.com\/?p=427"},"modified":"2017-01-23T10:34:50","modified_gmt":"2017-01-23T15:34:50","slug":"could-burnout-be-your-friend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jeanbaur.com\/wordpress\/?p=427","title":{"rendered":"COULD BURNOUT BE YOUR FRIEND?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I know it&#8217;s a strange idea to think of the thing we try so hard to avoid, as a force that might help us. But over and over, in my work helping groups stop burnout and get re-energized, I&#8217;ve seen how burnout has helped people. It&#8217;s made them change. It&#8217;s clarified what&#8217;s important to them. It&#8217;s set them on a new course.<\/p>\n<p>My past year has been full of activities surrounding the publication of my third book:\u00a0 &#8220;Joy Unleashed:\u00a0 The Story of Bella, the Unlikely Therapy Dog.&#8221; In fact, I&#8217;m speaking more now about the book than I am about burnout. At first I felt upset that my work had shifted. But now I see that my dog&#8217;s wonderful work comforting others, has deepened my understanding of why it&#8217;s so important to not let burnout eclipse our gifts. So, yes, burnout can be a friend, as long as it&#8217;s a friend you\u00a0 pay attention to. As long as you don&#8217;t get stuck.<\/p>\n<p>Here are the key lessons I&#8217;ve learned about self-care from my energetic (that&#8217;s the nice word for &#8220;crazy&#8221;) working dog:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Surprise yourself. Sit when you&#8217;d stand, stop when you&#8217;d go. Mix it up.<\/li>\n<li>Ask questions and the answers will come<\/li>\n<li>Small shifts lead to big changes<\/li>\n<li>Help comes from surprising places:\u00a0 a child, a dog, a stranger<\/li>\n<li>Pay attention<\/li>\n<li>Give thanks even when you don&#8217;t feel like it<\/li>\n<li>Grow in curiosity and giving back<\/li>\n<li>Travel light&#8211;see what you can get rid of and see how that makes you feel<\/li>\n<li>Cast off resentment&#8211;it just gets in the way<\/li>\n<li>Don&#8217;t be afraid of uncertainty or emptiness:\u00a0 wait, sing, a path will open.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Not bad lessons from a dog! Be brave and share your thoughts. That will help all of us have the best year ever.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/jeanbaur.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Front-Cover-Revised-7-28.jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-428\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-428\" src=\"http:\/\/jeanbaur.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Front-Cover-Revised-7-28-200x300.jpg\" alt=\"Front Cover Revised 7-28\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/jeanbaur.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Front-Cover-Revised-7-28-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/jeanbaur.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Front-Cover-Revised-7-28-768x1151.jpg 768w, https:\/\/jeanbaur.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Front-Cover-Revised-7-28-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/jeanbaur.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Front-Cover-Revised-7-28.jpg 1801w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I know it&#8217;s a strange idea to think of the thing we try so hard to avoid, as a force that might help us. 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